I'm not after the finished article it doesn't exist. I am looking for a true desire for submission and a willingness to take that next step the one that your scared of.
I have had my girl for about ten years now but due to illness there are many things she can no longer do. It has been discussed she knows I am here and why she accepts this as the next step in her submission and devotion and is happy with the situation, without openness and honesty there can be no trust without trust you have nothing.
I am not looking for an affair or a replacement but I am looking for a regular and long term arrangement with someone I can share those exquisite moments where the physical and cerebral collide.

The pleasure for me as a Dominant comes from those little moments when fear turns to interest, interest turns to desire and desire into need. Those hard earned successes when the exploration of submission becomes the understanding of self.
Experience is not a barrier and I prefer not to have any preconceived agenda or rules, we are all different and something one may find easy another may find scary especially when starting out so I am as happy if you are a newbie. More than happy to talk and answer questions so if you have any just ask.

I am looking for a local girl that is interested in a M/s or D/s relationship. Although work family and life often mean that time can be in short supply I am interested in someone for a regular and long term arrangement as it takes time to get to know and understand a sub and her needs to help her reach her full potential as well as build the trust and understanding needed for a good D/s relationship to work well.

I will not be for everyone nor will everyone be for me but for anyone interested in finding out more feel free to message. For those who are not I wish you well and good luck in your search