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Lifestyle Mistress seeks a male submissive

I am a lifestyle Mistress, and I have 40 years of knowledge and experience to bring to one male who can submit 100 percent in all ways in all things. I know what I want and I prefer someone who lives close to my area. I do not switch, nor do cyber. I am not looking to teach/train on line either. I am not seeking casual sex or hook ups. I am not interested in being with married or with someone who is already in a relationship either. If you are already in a relationship, do not contact me as I am not interested in being a third person in what you already have.
It is best that you live close to my location, or have the means to travel until you can relocate should we determine what the future will be.
I am starting my search for a male submissive.
If compatible and an agreement can be reached then a long term relationship can be had. I want a sempiternal one.

I have served as an officer in my local BDSM clubs for several years. Since Covid 19, it has been a loss for the lifestyle community the play dungeons have had to close. I look forward to these reopening.

I do not give out my phone number until a trust has been established.
Let's see what could happen.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Pinching
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Giving

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Body ArtSecret piercings
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyRetired
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleOwner

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Money, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA Male who wants to live the power exchange lifestyle with a woman who knows her self and desires well.
One submissive man who's ready and able to submit to one Mistress and enjoy what life may bring. One who wants to insure his Mistress's life is filled with extreme joy and happiness.
Age is open as well as race. Compatible is a must.
Our first dateConversation and discussion on expectations on what the power exchange lifestyle means to.each other and what is the goals wanted/needed if it is determined that further development for a long term relationship might be obtained

No smoking of anything. No drug use.
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Body typeA few extra pounds, Average, Fit

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMistress
I am seekingA sub
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Depilation / shaving, Femdom, Hot wax, Power exchange, Spanking, Verbal humiliation
My most pleasurable encounter wasA painting with black light reactive hot wax

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Body Fluids of any kind. Children/Minors.
Animals. Choking, airway control. Not using safe words.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Other
Ideal session:My submissive who wants to make my life easier and happier with striving to be the best they can be.
Our in length discussions will give a firm base of ideas in which sessions will be drawn from, if mutually agreed to be in relationship.
A check list can be filled out.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Spoiled and pampered ...with great rewards given. Deep respect and care .