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Seeking Female Sub for Real.

Experienced Dom a little out of practice, but I still remember things ;) seeking an adventurous sub female. Interested in long term relationship. Do not mistake my kindness for weakness. I take the gift of submission seriously and responsibly. I am happily married and we are open to a Polyamorous relationship with the right person. I am honest and expect the same. Short term is okay too. I am happy to work with a beginner to explore and find their place in the life or work with someone who knows who they are and wants to push it. To steal a line I heard once. We are beginners once and students for life. That applies to Dom and Sub.

I have an appreciation for a wide range of BDSM activities. I can do basic D/s to S/m and Master/SlaveT to deeper ranges.. I practice diversity. ;) Think it. desire it. We will explore it. I value strength, honor, and intelligence.

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyNot really into illicit affairs. I like to be upfront. Instead of an affair, it would be a getting to learn each other, explore, and build.
Does your partner know?Yes
How often does your spouse leave you alone?Would as needed

Public Sex preferences

The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:In a small town library.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height175 cm
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDiabetes
CircumcisedNo
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyRetired
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleMultiple Experiences

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA strong woman, but not a brat who needs to have her submissive side appreciated and put through its paces. Honest, faithful, with good communication skills, and willing to give all to someone they trust and are open with. Someone who takes pride in their submission and performance. Someone who can appreciate that strength can be gentle at times and still be firm and intense at others. Someone who can carry a conversation on a wide range of topics. Don't let the photos fool you. I have many interests. A Goth or a Witch? Don't be surprised. I can roll with that just fine. Be interesting. Run with the Wolf.
Our first dateDepends on how I read the person. Something that will help us understand each other. Maybe a ride on the motorcycle with stops here and there. Maybe coffee/tea with some little wicked moments. Regardless, it will tell us who we can be to each other.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isMaster
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cupping, Hair pulling, Mummification, Needle play, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI mummified her in clear cling wrap with a device in her vagina and left her lying on a bed thinking I had left the room. I watched over her for a little while before unwrapping her. She thought I'd left for hours. A mind/body experience for her.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
"Off Limits":Water Sports/Scat. Infantilism.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyToo many. Pushing a submissive to her limits in sensory overload. Physical, mental, moral. Pain, verbal and a touch of physical humiliation, endurance. I have many fantasies I want to explore with the right person. Some both mentally and physically. Others probably best kept to mental imagery while at play. I do have a dark imagination. Just not an ass about it. Regardless I would always practice aftercare of a sub. I want her strong, healthy, and mentally ready for the next exploration.
Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Hotel/motel, Movie theatre, Dressing room, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Someone who is content if we don't go to extremes or have her used by others and still be up for and fully willing and able to get totally over the edge on any level. Yet, someone who can be a good companion until required to be a total use toy. Then be totally involved.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Pain level:No limits