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New to this site just checking out. Not looking for anyone I found what I was looking for. I am Married not looking change that or your situation either. He's got his secrets I have mine. It works for us. Always welcome friends. Im not new to the lifestyle just new to this side of.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyKey left at front desk with instructions to follow that lead to smoking hot sex in the room. Gentle after care to avoid the drop.
Does your partner know?No
How often does your spouse leave you alone?All week long, home on weekends only

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:The beach or the nature trail in the woods.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:In the doctors office waiting to be seen.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureHair
Body ArtBelly button ring, Secret piercings, Visible tattoo
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusPart-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchId prefer someone who is married so they understand the need for discretion and confidentiality. I will not give you money so don't ask for it ever, I won’t ask for yours either. Someone who lives within two hours of me because of my time constraints I don’t want to spend all my time driving.
Our first dateLunch to get to know each other

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasNo encounters on this side but numerous as A Domme with my own submissives. I seek to better myself through exploring my submissive side to gain a deeper understanding of the lifestyle and to have first hand knowledge of what the sub endures. I want to k

Fetishes

FetishesLace / Lingerie, Pantyhose / Stockings, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Fisting,Biting, Beating, whipping , caning. Anything that will leave a mark lasting longer than an hour. potty play is off limits as is blood or cutting. Not a masochist I do not like pain only pleasurable pain.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyExploring my own submission is a fantasy as I’m not sure I have a submissive side. I can play possibly role play a submissive situation but to find someone to trust enough to hand control to in multiple aspects is my fantasy. As far as specific sexual fantasies I don’t wait when I come up with something I want I usually try it pretty quickly.
Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, Library
Fantasy sex partner:I think an attractive talented stranger maybe

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Erotic Spanking
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:The Closure / Forgiveness, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I have only been spanked once, it was barehand four swats and it was spontaneous. Horrifically it stung bad and left a bruise that lasted 10 days. No thank you.
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor
Implement:Hand, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Just Red