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Exploring my submissive side

New to this site just checking out. Married not looking change that or your situation either. He's got his secrets I have mine. It works for us. Always welcome friends. Im not new to the lifestyle just new to this side of it, and that's only if I possibly find the right person.

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What are your cbt preferences?

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?The beach or the nature trail in the woods.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?In the doctors office waiting to be seen.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 6" (168 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureHair
Body ArtBelly button ring, Secret piercings, Visible tattoo
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeC
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusMarried
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleOwner

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchId prefer someone who is married so they understand the need for discretion and confidentiality. I will not give you money so don't ask for it ever.
Our first dateLunch to get to know each other

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingFriendship
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasNo encounters on this side but numerous as A Domme female with my own submissives.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Fisting,Biting, Beating, whipping , caning. Anything that will leave a mark lasting longer than an hour. potty play is off limits as is blood or cutting. Not a masochist I do not like pain only pleasurable pain.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyExploring my own submission is a fantasy as I’m not sure I have a submissive side. I can play possibly role play a submissive situation but to find someone to trust enough to hand control to in multiple aspects is my fantasy. As far as specific sexual fantasies I don’t wait when I come up with something I want I usually try it pretty quickly.
Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, Library
Fantasy sex partner:I think an attractive talented stranger maybe

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Erotic Spanking
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:The Closure / Forgiveness
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor
Implement:Hand, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Just Red