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Straight single Heterosexual Dominant Master that finds intelligence, creativity the sexually most attractive feature. I have been in the lifestyle now for 18 years. I have enough toys to keep you busy.

I am glad you found your way here! I am looking for a play partner that I want for a local long term partner that I can bond to openly. I am open to all sorts of kinks, so I am open to exploration! I am pussy-centric and no longer penis-centric. I prefer to lock up the cock, and focus on pleasing a woman's body.

I just want to feel loved. I know I probably am not the greatest looking guy, and probably older than you like, but I am a straight heterosexual male that seeks to learn my s-type qualities but I love to please a woman and that finds intelligence, compassion, creativity, intimacy, the sexually most attractive features. For I seek not only to submit, but hope the trust level allows me to surrender to the right woman.

I want to be pegged because it feels great, but I also want to feel that vulnerability of being held down and taken by a woman. I want to be tied down not just because it’s exciting for her to use my body, but because it’s exciting to relinquish control and give myself to someone like that. It’s taken me so long to figure out how to voice that emotional connection of it, that it’s not just a kink and a new way of getting off, but a different way of connection with her and I’m looking forward to getting the chance to discuss it with my future Domme soon.

I’ll be a sub to my Mistress/Domme/Mommy (when I find one).?? I am not experienced on this side, and need to be trained. I want to be your kinky boytoy or better known as a "Toyfriend"! I want to shower you with my tongue and let you bind me, bend me over, bind me and use me or let me use my tongue to service you.

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Swinging Preferences

Swinging Level:Single - Seeking Couples
Seeking:Single Female
Travel:within 50 miles
Entertain at home:Never

Tickling Preferences

Favorite tickling objectFeather
Where's your favorite Tickling-Spot?Back, Breast, Genitals

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:None
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:No, should be safe, sane and consensual!

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleI make paddles

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit
My perfect matchI have been out of the scene for a few years. I met a woman who was submissive, but she decided she did not want the lifestyle anymore and left me with my sons.

I am looking for a submissive woman with character who is sweet, kind, passionate, that treats me with love and that she can see me with love and respect before any occasion. I do not accept brats. My slave will be 18-49 slim/petite/average kinky submissive woman who wants a D/s connection. My slave would be a kinky submissive woman, high sex drive, intelligent and sweet.

There is a whole lot more, so ask me anything. As my slave you will have a blast, share intimate moments, get kinky as much as the two of us can imagine. My slave needs to be creative, open-minded, supportive, honest! Must be D&D free like I am.
Our first dateSimple... getting to know each other! That can include a lot or a little depending on whom I am with.
EthnicityNo preference

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Medical / Enema, Pantyhose / Stockings, ring

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Munches, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":? Blood Play
? Mentally handicapped
? Needles
? Animals
? Fisting
? Scat Play
? No Other Males
? Drama
? Finsub/FinDom or P2P
? Watersports

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyOpen to a lot.
Fantasy locationHotel/motel, Hot tub
Fantasy sex partner:Mistress

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Master-Mistress / Slave Spanking
Role:I prefer both roles
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Being Told to Remove Pants, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Other
Pain level:Just Red

Femdom Preferences

I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Other