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Looking for some discreet fun, with a willing partner.

I'm an older white male(Dom); looking for some discreet fun. Yes I may have been around the block a few times but I treat a woman right. I'm a bit old fashioned in that I still open doors for woman and treat them with respect. I can get as easy of rough as a woman wants in the bed room, I can really take kink to a new level for them if that is where they wish to take it, but that would definitely have to be their call. I just lost my Wife a little over a year ago so not really looking for anything long term right now. I don't do Married Woman, if the are separated it must be at least a year or more, not here to mess things up for anyone.

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:The Beach
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:A girl friends bed room that was next to her parents room, and they were in the room.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageItalian
BuildA few extra pounds
Height180 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairMoustache
Best featureCalves
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionDiabetes
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusRetired
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleNetworking Engineer

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI lost my perfect match two years.
Our first dateCoffee in a public location so the lady feels some what comfortible

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cupping, Electro torture, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Tickling games, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wastell you later

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":What ever my sub does not like.

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationDark alley
Fantasy sex partner:not sure

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Unsure
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Newspapers, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence