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Trying to find myself in a land of lust..

Hello all. Let me start off with apologizing in advance. I do not know a lot of this world of kink, even though I have known what I am for a while now. So please be patient with me.
I am a mother of three and my children always come first in life. So if it takes me a while to get back to you, please know I am not ignoring anyone.
I have been called a natural submissive, a brat, a pet. While I know I am a natural sub, the other terms escape me.
What am I looking for on this site? I simply want to learn, maybe meet some people, find out more about the world of kink. I have certain limits, but I want to learn others, maybe discover kinks I like in the process.
I'm not here to get your rocks off or send out risky pictures. I have my pride. So if your just hoping for a good time and a some dirty talk, more power to you, but I'm not for you. If you're willing to talk and chat, maybe get to know me and try and help me figure myself out, then please feel free to drop me a line. Happy hunting.

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:In still new, I've experienced very little
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:A public pool

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildBBW/BHM
Height160 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Bra size44 / 100
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusIn a relationship
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over often
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusHomemaker
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchIm not vein, nor am I searching for someone to take care of me, but if I had to say, my perfect mate would be someone willing to spoil me, teach me, sometime strong and firm, yet patient and willing to teach.
Our first dateTime to talk and feel comfortable with one another. I'm not a big drinker nor do I like watching someone get wasted. A bar would not be a great choice.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byDomination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Sensory deprivation, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasStill new, haven't really had any

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:At least once a day
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkI want to try it
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Raves

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNever tried it
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Bathroom play, vomit

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyWould love to be owned by two males for the night
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Not sure really..

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Gentle with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Never have
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand
Response:Resistance
Pain level:Stinging