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To love me is to serve me

I am looking for a single male sub, one who is a masochist, to join Me and my female sub for a PART TIME, permanent D/s relationship. I am a seductress of sorts...and love to Dominate you with that sexual air I have about myself. I have been told that I exhude sexuality.
I want someone that is sure they are a sub, sure they want pain...and sure they want to submit...as I dont have the time for games. There are alot of men out there, that seem to think that its my duty as a Domme, to fulfill all of their fantasies...if this is you, look elsewhere. I am looking for my enjoyment, first of all...that is the difference between a strong woman, and a Domme. I definately want to keep your enjoyment in the front of my mind, but ultimately, it will be what I take from your enjoyment list...and encorporate. I do not enjoy verbal humiliation, and I know that alot of you subbies out there, thrive on it...so if you NEED it, I am NOT the Domme for you. I feel that its important for my subs to feel good about themselves...and to tell you that you are worthless, is not my style...not that I dont throw in "what a dirty little whore you are", on occation...lol.
I will expect whoever my sub is, to willfully submit to me, and all that I require. What I require of you, will depend alot on you. If you enjoy a bit of pain, we already see eye to eye on that...however if you are a pain freak, I would like to talk to you. I do enjoy giving my subs some pain to deal with...but I want someone that I can control in their mind...not on their carcass. The beatings(lol) are a perk!
Punishments aside, I enjoy giving a bit of flogging, and cropping, and paddling...for my pleasure. CBT is of special interest to me. Punishments however, will not be so pleasurable. My female sub, should you get far enough to speak to her, can fill you in on my sadistic side. lol.
I would prefer a man that is in his late 30's to early 50's...so if you are older or younger than that, I wont rule you out, but we will need to talk extensively, to make sure we are a match. If you are a married man, I insist on talking to your wife about the situation...because I DONT DO DRAMA. If you arent willing to be honest enough with your wife, then you wont be honest to me, either. Believe it or not, there are alot of married couples out there that are making it work, having an open relationship...I do, and my female sub has been with me for 22 years. So heads up, all married men.
I want someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, and wont be a doormat...I want my men to be men...I love that a strong, vibrant man wants to give himself to lil...well, not so little, me! lol I have a southern belle kind of personality when it comes to service...I say it with a smile, a please, and thank you...but that doesnt mean that you have a choice...if I tell you to do something, it BETTER GET DONE! Because, while I am soft, and gentle...southern belles are also notorious for their tempers... and I am not afraid to tell you like it is.
Honesty is a must...as is communication...while you may think that I am a goddess, I really am human, and dont have X ray eyes. I am not psychic...and if I am doing something that you need to tell me...you NEED to tell me.
I will be looking forward to hearing from you

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildBBW/BHM
Height170 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusIn a relationship
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyManufacturing / Distribution
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleOperations Management

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchSomeone that shows compassion, strength, and isnt afraid to do what is required of them, to make a relationship work for his Domme, and himself. A true submissive is not a weak, but a strong individual...it takes alot for someone to give "all of themselves" to someone else. It is one of the most important decisions anyone can make, and it requires courage, to do so.
Our first dateI know this sounds lame, but a nice quiet dinner is my idea of a first date. It gives me an opportunity to sit and talk, to learn more about you...and to view your body language...sometimes, what you are saying, and what you are really thinking, are two totally different things...you know...it comes out...oh, yes, we will have to set up a second date...when in your head you are saying...OMG...is it too soon to run? roflmao...you know I am right, and we all have had those moments...I call it the aunt matilda moment...when you meet someone, and give them that first hug, and you feel like you are hugging your sweet aunt matilda, or uncle Earl...lol...and you KNOW playtime will never ever be in the cards for you...lol.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDomme
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, CBT (cock & ball torture), Electro torture, Hot wax, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, All of the above and more!
"Off Limits":anal sex, scat play

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Bent under the arm, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Pain level:No limits

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Corsets, Leather
Ideal session:I am very sadistic, and enjoy giving pain to my partners. I love to flog, crop, whip (yes, bullwhip included), spank, and cbt. I enjoy sensory deprivation as well, because fear is a wonderful thing...it can make you feel alive. I enjoy sessioning for at least an hour, if not more, and want someone that is not going to safe out on me too quickly. I want you naked, restrained, and wanting.....yes, I want a lot, but for those that get to that with me, it is well worth it for you.