I am looking for a single male sub, one who is a masochist, to join Me and my female sub for a PART TIME, permanent D/s relationship. I am a seductress of sorts...and love to Dominate you with that sexual air I have about myself. I have been told that I exhude sexuality.
I want someone that is sure they are a sub, sure they want pain...and sure they want to submit...as I dont have the time for games. There are alot of men out there, that seem to think that its my duty as a Domme, to fulfill all of their fantasies...if this is you, look elsewhere. I am looking for my enjoyment, first of all...that is the difference between a strong woman, and a Domme. I definately want to keep your enjoyment in the front of my mind, but ultimately, it will be what I take from your enjoyment list...and encorporate. I do not enjoy verbal humiliation, and I know that alot of you subbies out there, thrive on it...so if you NEED it, I am NOT the Domme for you. I feel that its important for my subs to feel good about themselves...and to tell you that you are worthless, is not my style...not that I dont throw in "what a dirty little whore you are", on occation...lol.
I will expect whoever my sub is, to willfully submit to me, and all that I require. What I require of you, will depend alot on you. If you enjoy a bit of pain, we already see eye to eye on that...however if you are a pain freak, I would like to talk to you. I do enjoy giving my subs some pain to deal with...but I want someone that I can control in their mind...not on their carcass. The beatings(lol) are a perk!
Punishments aside, I enjoy giving a bit of flogging, and cropping, and paddling...for my pleasure. CBT is of special interest to me. Punishments however, will not be so pleasurable. My female sub, should you get far enough to speak to her, can fill you in on my sadistic side. lol.
I would prefer a man that is in his late 30's to early 50's...so if you are older or younger than that, I wont rule you out, but we will need to talk extensively, to make sure we are a match. If you are a married man, I insist on talking to your wife about the situation...because I DONT DO DRAMA. If you arent willing to be honest enough with your wife, then you wont be honest to me, either. Believe it or not, there are alot of married couples out there that are making it work, having an open relationship...I do, and my female sub has been with me for 22 years. So heads up, all married men.
I want someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, and wont be a doormat...I want my men to be men...I love that a strong, vibrant man wants to give himself to lil...well, not so little, me! lol I have a southern belle kind of personality when it comes to service...I say it with a smile, a please, and thank you...but that doesnt mean that you have a choice...if I tell you to do something, it BETTER GET DONE! Because, while I am soft, and gentle...southern belles are also notorious for their tempers... and I am not afraid to tell you like it is.
Honesty is a must...as is communication...while you may think that I am a goddess, I really am human, and dont have X ray eyes. I am not psychic...and if I am doing something that you need to tell me...you NEED to tell me.
I will be looking forward to hearing from you