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searching the illusive caning of my life

Always pushing for a severe caning and paddling. Often obsessed, until I've been adequately dealt with. I love the build up, if not too long and drawn out. The punishment itself rarely satisfies, as there are 2 main things missing: The right person, and the severity, its very rarely severe enough, for me. I want to meet me or miss right, this time. I've had enough of vanilla relationships. I'm looking for a DD long term relationship, with a christian who takes his/her faith seriously. I'm shy at first, I love a good laugh, I love with all my heart, am loyal, artistic, creative, I write, I draw, I play musical instruments,,compose music. I'm doing a part time degree in sciences and psych. And have a couple of jobs beginning next month, one in mental health, other in tutoring. I'm deep, honest, sensitive, a thinker, and I love physical exercise, and have started training daily again.

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:In private, though I've often dreamt of being caned in full view of others, and this very much excited me, but I've not had that opportunity yet.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:In a public, shared hall in a highrise building. Embarrassing, it was for my boyfriend, as he'd always dreamt of doing it in risky places. Thank goodness nobody saw us, lol.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
BuildVoluptuous
Height178 cm
Eye ColorGrey
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Bra size40 / 90
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusWork At Home
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job Titletutor (biology, piano, mental health)

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA christian woman, or man, who lives the faith, whilst also being able and willing to have a DomEstic Discipline relationship with me. Whereby he or she is the boss, when it comes,to that.
Our first dateTalking, a heart to heart possibly, definitely a chat about whether DD is for you, and the rest is up to you.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
I enjoyBondage, Power exchange, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasWell, my most pleasurable encounter has to be my most nightmarish one, as the two go hand in hand, as a masochist. Enforced eye contact during punishment too, wowee!

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Adult theaters, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isOverrated
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":More than one on one, one-night stands. Not my thing, done vanilla, wanting a longer term relationship now, with DD as a central theme.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyBeing over the knee of a strong woman or man, and paddled, so hard, for so long, that I cry real tears, sobs even. To be forced to look into my partners eyes too, during this. And being told no, when I want it to stop, that it wont stop until he or she is satisfied. The same with being whipped and caned. No safe word. All completely in your hands, vulnerable, and no wriggle room.
Fantasy sex partner:A male or female who is stronger than me, who can overpower me, and paddle and cane me to tears, and beyond, while enjoying that. A partner who enforces eye contact, throughout the punishment, too. And being pushed over to the big O whilst maintaining eye contact, with the use of a wand, amongst other toys. A dominant person.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I like to be stripped from the waist down, so that I'm completely vulnerable, and so that my partner can see exactly what he/she is doing, and can revel in my trembling buxum buttocks, being paddled and caned red, purple, blue, and black.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Resistance
Pain level:Heavy Marks